How to Prepare Your Child for the First Day at School

Giving your child a good start to their schooling can have a very positive impact on their entire education. This first day of school is a very important milestone for both parents and children alike.  

Not all children respond in the same manner to their first day of school, some welcome and enjoy the change some may be confused and anxious about the new environment they are going to step into. As parents, the least we can do is ease out the process and handhold them in their initial journey.

So let’s delve into a few steps you can take so that you are sure you did it right!

Arrange a visit to the school with your child: Plan it before they enter their first day so that they are familiar with the setting and surrounding of the school.

Meet the headmistress/class teacher: A sense of familiarity can be very reassuring for a child in a new place. If the child has met his class teacher prior to his first day he will find it easier to approach and communicate with her on day 1.

Speak to your child: Conversations with your child about a new teacher, new friends, a whole new range of activities and toys can help the child visualize what he or she can expect to experience and simultaneously, possibly even build their excitement about the new experience. If an older sibling already attends the school, ask them to tell your younger child about what the school is like, how the staff is and what to expect.

Set a morning routine: Suddenly commencing a strict routine every morning can be unnerving for both, the parents and the children alike, especially when such routines aren’t organized, or planned or even rushed. It is vital one transitions the child into a morning routine smoothly before day 1 of formal school.

Ensure your child is toilet trained: Most children are toilet trained before they start formal school. However, nature comes calling unannounced and you never know when this can become a point of stress or an embarrassing moment or an awkward experience in front of friends, teachers and helpers. Although even if your child does go through these experiences it is learning for them. But such moments of discomfort can be unsettling for a child in a new set up. Being toilet trained can save this hassle.

Engage in meaningful storytelling/reading sessions: Storytime or reading time can be used to set up the mood, expectation and excitement around joining the school. Children are greatly influenced by stories and often try to mimic what they understand of them. Use this to your advantage and steer them in the right direction.

Shop together for school supplies: A big part of the fun is getting school supplies and this should be a shared experience. If the school itself provides most of the things, you can still buy some personalized items such as a pencil box or school bag a new water bottle to keep them excited about using all that’s new on day 1.

Reassure your child: Spend time with them before schooling commences. Talk to them regarding the teachers, about your own love of learning and about the friendships that develop at school. Boost your kid's confidence by sharing your positive experiences and the things you still cherish about your school days

Children are like mirrors: Day 1 brings in a huge amount of anxiety not just to kids but to parents alike. Children are sharp and very keen observers. So despite the fact that you may be dealing with the separation anxiety yourself, make sure you appear calm and composed and in control. This brings a whole new confidence to them.

Last but not least-

Steer clear from the Dramatics: Ensure that the drop off is smooth and quick. The longer you linger the more difficult it will get for both of you. Allow the child to settle in your absence.

Enjoy the transition. 

Stay Tuned! Stay Relevant!

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