How to discipline your child - Insights: Episode 6 | Ezyschooling

POSITIVE WAY TO DISCIPLINE YOUR CHILD 

1.    Show and tell. Teach children right from wrong with calm words and actions. Model behaviours you would like to see in your children.
2.    Set limits. Have clear and consistent rules your children can follow. Be sure to explain these rules in age-appropriate terms they can understand.
3.    Give consequences. Calmly and firmly explain the consequences if they don't behave. For example, tell her that if she does not pick up her toys, you will put them away for the rest of the day. Be prepared to follow through right away. Don't give in by giving them back after a few minutes. But remember, never take away something your child truly needs, such as a meal.
4.    Hear them out. Listening is important. Let your child finish the story before helping solve the problem. Watch for times when misbehaviour has a pattern, like if your child is feeling jealous. Talk with your child about this rather than just giving consequences.
5.    Give them your attention. The most powerful tool for effective discipline is attention—to reinforce good behaviours and discourage others. Remember, all children want their parent's attention.
6.    Catch them being good. Children need to know when they do something bad--and when they do something good. Notice good behaviour and point it out, praising success and good tries. Be specific (for example, "Wow, you did a good job putting that toy away!").
7.    Know when not to respond. As long as your child isn't doing something dangerous and gets plenty of attention for good behaviour, ignoring bad behaviour can be an effective way of stopping it. Ignoring bad behaviour can also teach children natural consequences of their actions. For example, if your child keeps dropping her cookies on purpose, she will soon have no more cookies left to eat. If she throws and breaks her toy, she will not be able to play with it. It will not be long before she learns not to drop her cookies and to play carefully with her toys.
8.    Be prepared for trouble. Plan ahead for situations when your child might have trouble behaving. Prepare them for upcoming activities and how you want them to behave.
9.    Redirect bad behaviour. Sometimes children misbehave because they are bored or don't know any better. Find something else for your child to do.
10.    Call a time-out. A time-out can be especially useful when a specific rule is broken. This discipline tool works best by warning children they will get a time out if they don't stop, reminding them what they did wrong in as few words―and with as little emotion―as possible, and removing them from the situation for a pre-set length of time (1 minute per year of age is a good rule of thumb). With children who are at least 3 years old, you can try letting their children lead their own time-out instead of setting a timer. You can just say, "Go to time out and come back when you feel ready and in control." This strategy, which can help the child learn and practice self-management skills, also works well for older children and teens.

In this video, Mrs. Sushma Dua; principal of Shri Ram Swaroop Sethi Shishu Mandir tells us how should we discipline our children in a positive way. You can apply to Shri Ram Swaroop Sethi Shishu Mandir through this link: https://ezyschooling.com/school/page/...